Moving On: Quick Tips and Things to Keep on Hand

With Lesley gearing up to move in the next few months and Boyfriend moving Saturday, I thought I’d share a few of the things we did right during his move, as well as a few things that fell through the cracks. (Also, if I write it down I’ll be able to reference it myself).

The movers he hired were s-l-o-w, but my experience has usually been that the movers need all my stuff right away, whether I’m ready for them or not. I tend to leave “just a couple things” to be done at the end, but it ends up being too much to fit in and so I end up moving a few things myself. I also tend to think I have one “one or two boxes” when I really have, like, ten boxes worth of stuff left to get thrown in. Don’t leave things for that one last box. Unless its a magic box.

This was an in-town move between apartments (I cannot imagine doing cross country or having more than one bedroom), so it doesn’t include things like toothbrushes–that’s outside my realm of experience. These are the things we were glad to have or wished we had during moving day.

So here goes:

Things to leave out at the old place:

Not this exact one, but similar. Smaller and lighter than a drill, so its easier to store where you can grab it and gets light moving out type jobs done fast

Not this exact one, but similar. Smaller and lighter than a drill, so its easier to store where you can grab it and gets light moving out type jobs done fast

  • Screwdriver (super essential–you’ll forget to take holders off the wall, realize those curtain tie backs need to come down, and that the legs on the table are screwed on). He used a small electric one, which is easier to tote around than a drill.
  • Paper towels and other cleaning supplies, to clean whatever you uncover when you move large items around
  • Garbage bags. More than one, since you’ll be pretty sure you got it all, throw out the first one, and realize you need another.
  • Small Ziploc bags to put small pieces (like screws or shelf supports) so they don’t disappear.
  • Sharpie to label anything you missed.
  • Pen and paper to write stuff down, ideally on a clipboard.
  • Tape gun so you can close last-minute boxes and tape random things together.
  • Some food. We messed this up. Due to the turtle-movers, I was starving by the time we finally left his place. (I had set aside stuff to eat breakfast, but didn’t anticipate lunch).  Along those lines, bottled drinks or a cup so you can still have a drink.
  • One or two Very Important BAGS where the above items get stashed. We had a duffel bag with plenty of pockets (screws, ziplocs, writing utensils), a small size tool caddy (for the screwdriver and some other basics) and a cleaning caddy.

On the flip side, most of the stuff above was important, with some key additions. There are also some things you just want to make sure you can find immediately without having to open any boxes:

  • A utility knife, to open all those boxes.
  • Food. Or at least a plan for where to get some. See above.
  • Toilet paper. Or a willingness to find a convenient business if you need to use the facilities.
  • Spare blankets or towels. Your movers might be smart enough not to put boxes from the snowy ground outside right on your dining room table. Or not. Instead of stressing about it, cover it up.
  • Everything above (except the tape gun. Thank goodness!)

On a side note, Boyfriend now lives half a block from Michael’s. This could be dangerous…

What are your moving must-haves?

Wintry “Thanks” Cards

Somehow, I’ve posted cards exactly once.

Must fix. Now that I’ve hired a photographer* I’m all set to fix that.

Lets start off with the Thank You cards I made to send to (very generous) family & friends for my Christmas gifts**

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These were pretty simple to make using my Cuttlebug and a paper cutter, as well as all this:

White and light blue shimmer paper, heavy navy paper, white pen, corner rounder, tape roller, Snowflake die and snowflakes embossing folder (and glue dots)

White and light blue shimmer paper, heavy navy paper, white pen, corner rounder, tape roller, Snowflake die and snowflakes embossing folder (and glue dots)

Once I had the basic design set up, these came together very quickly. I’ve mentioned before that I’ve been practicing writing different fonts (using this book, which I highly recommend), and I used three of them in these cards:

Wintry Thanks 2 line v2

Thanks curlicue

Wintry Thanks Script

Which is your favorite? The last one is the only nice writing I can do that seems worthy of going on a card!

*Boyfriend. I make him dinner sometimes…

**They would have been Christmas cards but…yeah.

2013 Goals: Lesley

2012 finished up with a lot of big changes for me. I started a new job, leaving a great boss, some funny coworkers and a carpool behind and launching on a new adventure that, frankly, opens up a lot of doors for me, professionally and personally. I also ended a relationship, leaving me with a lot more time on my hands. 2013 is beginning with a very clean slate for me.

So what will 2013 bring?

New Apartment, New Decorating Projects?

Well, I suspect 2013 will bring a new living arrangement. I live in a very old duplex and my landlords are moving out of state due to a job opportunity. Since my new job brought me a substantial pay bump, I’m hoping to find a slightly nicer place that’s still affordable enough that I can aggressively save towards some of my goals (a very healthy emergency fund for 6 months of expenses, the down payment for a house of my own, a nice vacation, etc.). But moving is expensive, finding an apartment that takes a 75 lb. dog is ridiculously difficult, and I actually hate moving. Since they have a management company taking over the yard work, I think I might stick around…or I might move down to the lower unit, which has two bedrooms, a large kitchen (with a dishwasher!) and a dining room. Stay tuned.

More Regular Blogging, Better Blogs

Since I’m going through so many changes, I’m sure I’ll have a lot to write about. I also need to get better about finishing projects before I start new ones, so hopefully, I’ll have more projects to tell you about. And I’m trying to take a more active role in the cooking group I belong to and focus the activities I’m scheduling on budget-friendly foodie events, so that will probably mean more cooking and more recipes.

Because of the direction my career is taking, I also need to be more proactive about my writing blog, and post there more regularly. And, for both blogs, I need to think more about how we’re using social media.

Lastly, I really want to improve the quality of photos I’m posting on this blog. Using a digital camera to photograph beadwork is very hard – you need a camera with more advanced focusing capabilities and a little point and shoot or iphone camera usually won’t do the job. I also want to be able to crop and watermark photos, which I can’t do with my current computer because the operating system is so out of date. So a new computer and camera have been on my to-buy list for months. I’ve been saving steadily for both of them, and hopefully will have both by the end of January. That will hopefully help improve the quality of the blog and the photos, since I’ll have tools that are working properly.

What about you? What are your goals for 2013?

What I Got: Lesley

It’s a little late for a Christmas post, but since I’ve been away from the blog for awhile, I thought I should add my holiday recap.

Out Christmas was very relaxed and peaceful this year. We spent Christmas Eve with my “faux” family (my mom’s best friend’s family). It was great, with kids running around, our usually grab-bag gift exchange (everyone brings a present worth $25, we draw numbers and pick gifts in numerical order), and this year we did soup. I made Russian Mushroom Barley soup, which I thought turned out pretty good (not quite as good as the Soup House at the Milwaukee Public Market, but pretty tasty). My cousins, Andy and Kim, did a Lobster Bisque that was knock-your-socks-off good. And my Aunt Susie made a split peas soup, and cousin Matt made…some other soup with meat that I also didn’t try. But it was also good. So yay for fun family time with tons of yummy food!

I got this fancy no-batteries-required radio/cell phone charger in the gift exchange. I really like having it as part of my bad weather/zombie apocalypse survival kit.

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The next day we woke up, waited for my sister and her fiance to arrive then enjoyed crab cakes benedict and my dad’s fried potatoes for breakfast. It was fantastic, but we really needed something green to go with it! Very heavy breakfast.

We opened gifts and just lazed around for most of the day. My favorites included:

Noise canceling headphones (I sit next to a very noisy group at my new job)

Stainless steel measuring cups, with the measures engraved on the handles instead of printed (These suckers will last me forever, unlike my last plastic set, which lost both labels and entire handles due to heavy use).

Sky High: Triple Layer Cakes (I need occasions to bake for now because these look fantastic).

I also got a lot of little odds and ends for my gym bag, cute homemade pajama pants from my mom and a few other odds and ends.

Hope your holiday season was also filled with lots of merriness.

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A Better Bathroom

Bathroom Final From HallAfter neverending work on my new bathroom, it was promptly flooded and (parts) had to be redone. It was pretty upsetting, and it turns out that my neighbor has bargain-basement “insurance”–good thing I have State Farm. Due to a number of things, including discovering additional damage that meant tearing out the shower floor and redoing it, the bathroom was only fully finished LAST WEEK. For those of you keeping track at home, that makes it FIVE MONTHS of not having a completed bathroom. Ugh.

But finally FINALLY it’s finished. Art on the walls, boxes on the shelves and towels on the hooks DONE.

Bathroom Final Full Lights Off

Bathroom Final Window & Towel Bar

Bathroom Final Vanity & Mirror

Bathroom Final Built Ins

 

And some details of the shower:

Bathroom Final Shower View

Shower floor tile is 1x2 marble tiles that look like minis of the floor tile.

Shower floor tile is 1×2 marble tiles that look like minis of the floor tile.

Other details:

The bathroom floor is marble subway tile installed in a straight herringbone. Just enough interest without making the small footprint too busy.

The bathroom floor is marble subway tile installed in a straight herringbone. Just enough interest without making the small footprint too busy.

Between the open shelf on the bottom of the vanity and the cabinet, it has a ton of storage.

Between the open shelf on the bottom of the vanity and the cabinet, it has a ton of storage.

Pretty wrapping paper (with the perfect colors!) from Paper Source in an Ikea frame.

Pretty wrapping paper (with the perfect colors!) from Paper Source in an Ikea frame.

 

Baskets on the shelves hide ugly chargers. I also put the thermostat for the heated floors and the outlet ABOVE the first shelf, making them easier to cover up--and less distance for cords to have to stretch.

Baskets on the shelves hide ugly chargers. I also put the thermostat for the heated floors and the outlet ABOVE the first shelf, making them easier to cover up–and less distance for cords to have to stretch.

The cubbies hold a ton--I have an ugly plastic cleaning caddy on that middle shelf (look for that artwork in a later post!)

The cubbies hold a ton–I have an ugly plastic cleaning caddy on that middle shelf (look for that artwork in a later post!)

I put a cabinet in when we found a hole above where my coat "closet" ends...its tough to reach, but never say no to storage!

I put a cabinet in when we found a hole above where my coat “closet” ends…its tough to reach, but never say no to storage!

Anything else you want to know? I can’t tell you how relieved I am to have this finally DONE.

Gingerbread Party: The Invites

I’ve written a lot about my Gingerbread Party, but I’m back with one last* (boring-ish) post–this one on the technical side.

Pro Winner Shannon's Nativity (she's an architect, but this is her first win and she was beyond excited. She even had her husband come back and pick it up so it could be there for the judging, and it apparently is still on their coffee table)

Pro Winner Shannon’s Nativity

This is the fourth year I threw this party, and the guest list gets tougher every year. Who do I invite? Does anyone not get invited this time around? I think having an annual party makes this a lot trickier–even as relationships grow and change, the party remains constant. I don’t want to leave out old friends, but there isn’t much room in a one bedroom for new ones if its full of old.

So I have a spreadsheet. The past-winner couple (he designs, she builds) entertain tons and have struggled with invites as well, and she gave me great advice (that I initially made fun of) to keep a spreadsheet. It actually helps a lot, especially if you have an annual event and want to invite as many people as you can.

Someone's Boyfriend took second place in the Amateur Division with his very first house ever.

Someone’s Boyfriend took second place in the Amateur Division with his very first house ever.

Mine look likes:

Affliation* Name*# in party* 2012 Status (y/n/m), and then Invited/Attended/Replied for each of the past two years, which makes it easy to see where people fall.

I don’t want to stop inviting anyone who has attended, or who has not attended but rsvped. If I’ve invited someone and they didn’t rsvp, I won’t feel as bad about dropping them, especially since that will allow me to invite someone I’m closer to now. I’ve thought about not inviting people that I was much closer to in the past, but after someone said to me last year, “It just isn’t Christmas until your gingerbread party!” no one’s off the list.

Having those records make it easier on me in a couple of ways:

  • I don’t forget that I invited that acquaintance last year and leave them off this time around
  • I realize I only thought about inviting Bob last year, so I’m not dropping him if he doesn’t make the cut this year.
  • All the information is in one place, so I realize it if I accidentally invite 50 people to my one bedroom.

To give you some perspective, 2011 I think 60 people were invited, and about 40 came. It. Was. CROWDED. At one point, there were four people in my hall. It was so crowded it was uncomfortable.

This year, I had 58 adults and 8 children on my yes/maybe list and cut 30 people who were past invitees, including a couple who came once, but who I really don’t talk to any longer (so I’m okay with offending them if it happens). What was at issue were two basic questions:

* Two people who were married and are now divorced–I’m in the same social circle as the man, who is dating someone new, but have also socialized with the woman. Both have been invited in the past, and I’m not sure what to do here.

* Work. Right now I have nine coworkers on the Maybe list. And realistically, if I invite them, there are another half dozen I should invite as well. Most of those coworkers come with significant others, so that’s even more people. I’d love to invite them, but I don’t feel like I can invite everyone, unless they promise to stay outside. The issue? Two of them actually came last year, and I feel rude not inviting them again–even though they aren’t the ones I’m closest to. I AM inviting two coworkers, but one is my other half (we have the same first name & last initial and are always together, so I could easily invite her and no one else) and the other I did a 62 mile bike ride with in September, so I think hanging out one on one qualifies.

Ultimately, I left the divorced couple off the list, and invited only the two closest coworkers.

My party had plenty of room to breathe and I actually talked to my guests. Next year I might put some more coworkers back on the list if I feel like there will be room, but having my spreadsheet updated and ready for the 2013 party makes the guest list a much easier process once it’s time.

Do you keep a list of who gets invited to what? Do you think I’m crazy for having one?

Do you invite coworkers to parties? What is the biggest party (not wedding) that you have ever thrown?

*This is the last post about this unless I get the really awesome photos back from the official party photographer or the recap video.

What I Got: Mary

Santa was good to me this Christmas (as were my family, Boyfriend, and Boyfriend’s family). My final “Christmas” was just Sunday, and I had a celebration filled week:

Christmas Eve we headed out to my mom’s to have dinner with my mom & sister and open some presents there (thanks for the adhesives sis!) and then go to my mother’s church for Christmas Eve service (round 1). After the service, we hopped in the car and headed back to the city for dessert at a friend’s (we were invited for dinner but church round 1 conflicted), then went to my church for Christmas Eve service (round 2).

When Christmas morning rolled around, Boyfriend and I opened a present apiece and then cooked–prepping a ham, making mac & cheese and mashing potatoes. Then we headed out the door for Christmas day service (yep, round 3 if you’re keeping track at home) at his church. His mother and brother drove in to meet us and came back to my place after the service for Christmas lunch/dinner. We actually celebrated with his family the following day, but it was a lovely afternoon–and when they left we opened the rest of our gifts to each other.

My favorites?

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The most perfect navy pillow I could think of for my busy couch

Along the keeping-it-cozy theme, I also got a new throw blanket for my couch with a basket to store it in (the basket was a me-to-you-to-me gift since I don’t mind having it draped over the side of the couch but Boyfriend thought it should have a nice little home). I think he saw it in one of my magazines or on my Pinterest or something though, so thats super cute.

This dark blue throw is perfect for curling up on the couch

This dark blue throw is perfect for curling up on the couch

And what did I get him?

A box of circles. Cut out of paper.

I think I’ll just leave that one a mystery for now–but don’t worry, it was his favorite Christmas gift from me, and I’ll tell you more once its finished.

The next day we headed out to Indiana for Christmas with his family, including his niece and nephew. Everyone gets gifts for the kids, but the adults just draw names. I drew his mom and his sister drew me–she got me the “Cadillac of paper cutters” as her husband kept teasing me. It’s every bit as amazing as I thought it would be.

We brought Boyfriend’s brother back to Chicago with us, for a shopping trip the next day. He just moved from Ohio to Michigan for a work transfer and has a very big, very empty new house. He picked out a couch from Crate & Barrel and wanted to hit up Ikea as well–yes please! In more boring news, I got a couple of frames to match ones I already have (which means…the bathroom is really, truly, officially D.O.N.E.) as well as a frame for the aforementioned box of circles Christmas present.

I’ve been lusting after this gorgeous bowl for my coffee tables, and its as pretty as I thought it would be.

Merry Christmas to me!

Merry Christmas to me!

Did your house get anything great for Christmas? What was your favorite gift to GIVE?

Gingerbread Party: The Houses

Remember my epic gingerbread party?

Well, the 2012 version happened, and some pretty intense building. What do you think?

All this, plus ten boxes of graham crackers and six bags of powdered sugar on their way to becoming icing

All this, plus ten boxes of graham crackers and six bags of powdered sugar on their way to becoming icing

On the way to the judging, the dining room looked like this:

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Not everyone built houses. I only built one the first year, and plenty of others weren’t there long enough/were too intimidated to make one. Don’t worry, I still had fun hanging out with my favorite little girl!

Hi there cutie!

Hi there cutie!

And then they were done.

 

Pro Winner Shannon's Nativity (she's an architect, but this is her first win and she was beyond excited. She even had her husband come back and pick it up so it could be there for the judging, and it apparently is still on their coffee table)

Pro Winner Shannon’s Nativity (she’s an architect, but this is her first win and she was beyond excited. She even had her husband come back and pick it up so it could be there for the judging, and it apparently is still on their coffee table)

Robyn's Classic Cottage finished second (she took first last year)

Robyn’s Classic Cottage finished second (she took first last year)

Someone's Boyfriend took second place in the Amateur Division with his very first house ever.

Someone’s Boyfriend took second place in the Amateur Division with his very first house ever.

And a few other houses…

Gingerbread Lyman & Angi

Gingerbread Danny

It was a lovely party, and definitely a tradition I want to continue, but I’m pondering changes for next year. I think I may make the houses in advance and have next year by only about the decorations–and ask everyone to bring one decoration to share and nothing personal to use (I allowed that this year).

Did you make a gingerbread (or graham cracker) house this year?

 

2012 Favorites

This has been a busy year for me–there are still some projects (some of my favorites!) that need to be wrapped up on here, like the buffet and the bathroom–but many completed that I wanted to look back on.  Here are my Favorites (and some of yours) from the past year.

The most popular post (thanks in part to a few features) on the blog is one of my favorites too:

Pinterest Challenge: Map-lined drawer

Pinterest Challenge: Map-lined drawer

And actually, everything else was a crafty paper thing too.

First up is my favorite (but according to WordPress’ year end review, no one else’s):

Finished Product

My birthday present to myself, made by a forced labor birthday ice cream social (but painstakingly cut and assembled by me)

Many of my projects were gifts, and two of my favorites were for a close friend’s new baby girl:

Made with both parent's favorite childhood books

Made with both parent’s favorite childhood books

This banner hung in their living room for three months before moving to the baby's room. So glad they loved it!

This banner hung in their living room for three months before moving to the baby’s room. So glad they loved it!

The Mother’s Day present I made was one of my first posts, and still looks great on my mom’s hallway picture ledges.

Made of a zillion cut and folded paper hearts.

Made of a zillion cut and folded paper hearts.

And an idea everyone should steal (for thermostats, alarm panels and door buzzers like mine): The canvas to cover an eyesore. Dots optional.

The canvas panel just has punched paper dots glued to it and covers the buzzer. No one even knows its there!

The canvas panel just has punched paper dots glued to it and covers the buzzer. No one even knows its there!

I was a little surprised at the prevalence of paper, especially since I DO write about other stuff. And although one of my first posts was about cards, I never post them (something I plan to remedy right away–I love making cards and make tons of them!)

Did you do a Favorites post? I love these, especially for blogs I’m new too–link yours up in the comments so I can see what yours are!

Christmas Cookie Exchange

Last week was a big week for me in the holiday entertaining department.

On Tuesday, I hosted my sorority’s annual holiday cookie exchange. Our best turnout year had over a dozen people, but this year was a paltry four. One girl made Snickerdoodles, another made peanut butter cookies and the third made potato chip cookies. The potato chip cookies were pretty interesting (a hint of saltiness)–I’d heard of those before but never tried them.

It’s a super simple party to throw–evite, get some drinks (I just did hot chocolate, and everyone only wanted water) and remind people to bring copies of their recipe and an empty container for all their cookies!

I made a recipe Lesley pinned from Recipe Girl for Peppermint Sugar Cookies.

Recipe Girl's Peppermint Sugar Cookies

Recipe Girl’s Peppermint Sugar Cookies

They turned out pretty well. I wasn’t totally in love, but I liked them, and they look really pretty. After reading the reviews I subbed granulated sugar for some of the powdered sugar. It worked fairly well (but its not like I know how the recipe would work as written).

I served hot chocolate and we sat around and chatted and snacked on cookies before we exchanged. This was also a great plan for holiday party prep–I scheduled it so that I could use my cookies for dessert at my Christmas party on Saturday.

What’s your favorite kind of cookie?